“Though I work in a corporate in the Chief role, I first call myself a family counsellor. My wife Moly and I have been family life educators, consulted over 350+ couples so far. We have been doing pre-marital, post-marital, sexual counselling & career counselling since 2002 under our brand – Build & Soar Family Counseling and Research Centre www.buildandsoar.com
A good marriage can be showcased through the couple’s behaviour and thought process.
Especially during the pandemic, we discovered that every household held a different problem, but all looped into having an unhappy married life. Conflicts between couples are expected; however, the solution to resolving them is also significant.
By looking at one of my articles where I mentioned this – ‘People who aren’t sexually happy at home would carry problems to the workplace’, one of the largest corporates hired us as their employees’ family educator. We worked closely with 300+ couples in the last 3 years for the corporate and delivered a massive increase in productivity that made the employees attend the tailored program mandatorily.
We framed the curriculum based on the issue that was identified by the organisation through a survey of the employees One of our most eminent programs is the ‘Marriage Wellness Program’, where we customise the entire workshop, work on the assessment tool and assist the couples exclusively. This helped the couples to sort of difference and helped to do well in their marriage and the company analysed the data to see the productivity after the training program.
We created assessment tools for couples to identify their flaws themselves and find a solution on their own.
Providing for a family doesn’t stop at money. That may be part of it, but it needs to be balanced with providing emotion as well. Your partner, your children, extended family, finance, leisure and more over being available for the family when in real need. . You are important to them and need to be engaged in their world. Needs in a marriage not only need to be expressed, but they also need a response. An ongoing response of love, time, commitment, affection and attention.”
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